Sunday, March 6, 2011

Sunday...

Today we have been doing a bit of work in the yard.

J has been raking our lawn ..
The children are working on getting our garden plot ready...It doesn't look like much yet but soon we will have a thriving garden in this area!

And later today we head to our first 4H meeting! The children are very excited about it!

Random pictures of my blessings...
KianAdley...


Gabriellia..
Blessings today!!

Wednesday, March 2, 2011

Treating my dh with honor..

Now that things have started to settle down for us a bit I am trying to put my focus on getting back into Yah's word daily and work on those things He has shown me that need work in my marriage.

 Over the years I have developed attitudes toward my dh that I don't like. I am not sure when it happened and I can't pinpoint the exact moment they began but it is what it is..

One day a few weeks ago I stood looking in the mirror thinking how much I disliked who I was when around my dh. Bad attitudes creep in so easily. When my dh came home that evening I confessed this to him and since that night I have been working towards improving the way I relate to my dh.

When I sit and truly ponder who my dh is I realize how very blessed I am. I can get so caught up on those little things that because I think upon them too much become great big monsters. Then they seem much bigger than they actually are!
My dh is a sweet kind man. He is willing to help me and does so much for all of us. He works hard everyday to provide for us. He helps me with raising the children. He cooks and cans. He organizes all of my pantry shelves. Thats a huge help!! :)

Something that a lady I met while living in IN said to me has helped me alot. She said that I was like her in that I have my principles and I put my principles before people. How true! I do that with everyone including my dh. I am working on remembering people are more valuable than the principles I hold myself to.

A few things I am doing:
I am stopping before I speak and making sure my tone is kind.
I am purposefully speaking kind things to my dh even if I don't feel that way at the time.
I am trying to say something uplifting to him everyday.

I am already seeing, no feeling a change in myself just from acting on these things.

Today's scripture from my devotion speaks to this:

"And my G-d will meet all your needs according to His glorious riches in Christ Yeshua." Philippians 4:19

Yah will provide all I need to treat my dh with the honor he deserves. He will supply what I need to act in a way that reflects the love of Father.  

Blessings! 

Monday, February 28, 2011

Palo Duro Canyon

Yesterday we decided to go check out the Palo Duro Canyon that we have heard so much about. It's about 35 minutes from our home so not too far for a nice day out!

Here are some pics of our day and what we saw...










We spent an hour on the trails along and down in the canyon. We didn't walk the whole trail but we had a nice time exploring!
I can tell you it was very Texas like. Texas has a unique terrain that's unlike other states I have seen.
It's beautiful! Such a difference from IN where we moved from. G-d's creation has such variety!!

Friday, February 25, 2011

Sacrifice..

Today we met our first homeschooler here in Texas. It was so nice meeting another mama. We met at one of our library branches and I was able to take my 3 littlest ones to the Laugh and Learn story time. I enjoyed it and I "think" my munchkins did too! I am hoping that we can go again! This is something I have wanted to do with my littles for awhile so I am glad that I am finally getting to do it!

So often I feel like I am not a good mama to my kiddos but something that a good friend of mine reminded me of helps me pull my thoughts away from such negativity. It might not seem like a big thing, but she reminded me that I am a good mama and that I have been nursing for 15 years straight! That I continue to nurse my babies even when it's inconvenient and hard. For me, thats huge, because so much of the last 16 yrs of my marriage I have been breastfeeding. And alot of the time it is a sacrifice. I have to give up alot of my wants so that my babies can have what they need to grow into healthy children and then into healthy adults.

 This is true in so many areas of motherhood. We want to go here and we want to do this but instead we take our children to the library for story time or to the park for play time. We want the whole piece of chocolate for ourselves but instead we share it with our teen. We need new clothes but instead we buy our 12 yr. old the new shirts she needs. Motherhood is all about sacrifice. Every day we sacrifice our wants, needs and our time for these little and bigger people the L-rd has given us to raise.

And perhaps by doing this we are teaching them what it truly means to love others more than we love ourselves. Maybe we can lead the next generation away from the "it's all about me" into the "it's all about you" way of living life?!
 
Sure, it's a challenge. It's a SACRIFICE! I don't think we'll be sorry or regret our choice!

Tuesday, February 22, 2011

We're in TX! YEEHAW!

Well, we are all moved and settled in Texas. We have unpacked, things on the walls and other excess taken to storage.
We have had a chance or two to check out our new city. It's much bigger than anywhere we have lived but with that comes new adventures. They have 5 library branches and we plan to check out each one! So far we have been to one so 4 more to go! :)

My children have been enjoying our BIG yard! Thats a nice change for them. In IN we had a very little yard. We will have room for a garden also which makes mama and daddy happy!

We have started again with homeschooling this week after being on a two week long break while packing and moving. We are doing our first lapbook and loving it! Who knew learning and teaching could be so much fun! :)

Have a few pictures to share..

mama and baby..

Josiah and Morgan-Britney

our new home in Tx..

KianAdley 9 months..




a few pics of our texas home..
























 so there we go!!


BLESSINGS!!!

Monday, February 7, 2011

The goodness of G-d!

This past week has been full of so many things. It has flown by as if in a blur..so many good things that the L-rd has done.

Friday morning, Jan. 31st we left for Louisiana. Before we left my dh had another job offer so we decided to head to LA for a job interview and then on to Texas for another one. We were so excited as the job offer in Texas was with a homeschooling Christian father of 5 children. Many the same ages as some of our children.

It was a neat experience for me seeing the south. It was beautiful even in the winter. I was amazed that some of the trees still have their leaves. In LA it was warm enough to go without a coat and wear short sleeves. I loved it! The area was very Cajun and full of history. I wish we would have been able to stay longer so I could have seen all that I wanted too!
The job interview in LA for my dh went well and he was offered the job but before he made a decision he wanted to check out the job in Texas so Sunday morning we left LA and headed for TX 12 hours away.
Monday afternoon he met with the owner of the shop and was given the job.. My dh decided to take it as we felt it was given by Father!
The next day we begin to look at homes. We were waiting to be shown our 2nd home of the day; our first day looking. As we sat in the car my dh and I held hands and prayed. Asking for favor for the first house we had looked at but surrendering ourselves to whatever Yah had for us. Within 5 minutes of that prayer we received a phone call letting us know we had been approved for the house we wanted!! My dh and I sat thanking Father with tears in our eyes!
The next day was spent getting everything hooked up and our new home ready for us and our children. Thursday we headed home. OK was a mess. The bad snow storm had basically rendered Oklahoma City and Tulsa shut down. The city of Tulsa was at a stand still and cars were stranded all over the roads. I was so scared even driving on them at a very slow pace. We stopped over for the night in Miami, OK and then began again the next morning. From Joplin, MO on the roads were pretty clear and our trip was uneventful.  We arrived home early Saturday morning and since then have been packing and going through our things! We are scaling down alot! There is so many things to do to move. We are picking up the moving truck Thursday and leaving Friday morning.

I am excited about beginning our new lives in TX but sad about leaving our church and friends here! Yah has done many things in my life and heart since moving to IN almost 3 yrs ago! I am leaving here a new woman, a different woman, a changed woman!
I am excited about getting involved in ministry in Tx. There are many opportunities that await us! Many ways we can spread Father's love!      

Friday is my 16th wedding anniversary! I will spend it driving to Tx to begin a new phase in our lives! I am rife with excitement and apprehension about the adventures that await us! What does the next 16 yrs of marriage hold for me??  What do the next 16 yrs of my life hold for me?? What are Father's plans for me??

*** L-rd I am yours! As imperfect as I am I give myself to you with anticipation of the work you will do in me and the purpose my life holds in relation to your kingdom! 

Blessings!

Tuesday, January 25, 2011

Louisiana

This Friday my dh, me and our two nurslings leave for Louisiana. My dh is going to check out a shop there (a potential job) and since he is going there anyway me and our two littlest are coming along. (I have never been to any southern states so this is a real treat for me!!) We decided to take this opportunity also to celebrate our anniversary. An anniversary weekend!! Feb. 11 is our 16th wedding anniversary! Hard to believe that 16 years have already gone by! I have been busy so the time has flown!

I will miss my other children but we are leaving them in good hands. I am looking forward to the trip and spending time with my honey! We truly need this time to reconnect and enjoy each other. Things have been very stressful lately with my dh's job situation and our finances.

This past year has been hard on our marriage. There are so many things the L-rd is laying upon my heart in regards to my own issues and attitudes. I have alot of work to do but I continue to believe that with Yeshua beside me I can become a jewel to my dh and his perfect helpmeet. I have not arrived but it will happen..

I appreciate all of you that are praying for my family and dh's job situation! Please be praying that my dh gets this job in Louisiana. It will be quite a change for us; culture shock I am sure. But I am really hoping we get to move south as I am done with cold and snow. But the most important thing is that we are where G-d wants us; His best for us! We want to be about His business; being His hands and feet!  

Blessings to you all!

Friday, January 14, 2011

Nothing that I know of!

There have been so many good things that have come out of our struggles. The L-rd has been speaking to my dh and showing him so many things. My dh is learning and growing. I am learning and growing.
We are able to talk with our children about prayer and they can clearly see just how powerful it truly is! They get to see the L-rd's provision!
Tonight after we prayed we had a blessed time as a family just talking and discussing G-d's word. How we as believers so often take the Word and mold it to fit into our society or our world instead of us as His creation molding our lives to fit Him. We spoke to our children about learning to read G-d's word and to know G-d means what He says. It's not hidden so that we might not know. It is written plainly if we are but willing to open our eyes and look!
My dh read from Hosea and so much of what He read was true right now in our country! He was telling us to remember how important obedience to Father is! Obeying His commandments and not choosing which ones we want to obey and which ones we don't. Just obedience, plain and simple.

It was a truly wonderful time! I looked around at my children and thankfulness just filled my heart full to bursting! I may not have man's riches and success according to the American Dream but I have something that is much more valuable! I have a wonderful G-dly husband and 10 amazing children! I have 10 people who are part of me walking around on this earth! And you know what else? I can't take my van, home or jewelry to heaven with me but I can take my children! We can all sit at Yeshua's feet one day together! We can all worship the King of Kings with the angels together!
Now, you tell me, what's better than that!? Nothing that I know of!

Blessings!

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